I wrote a long rambling blog entry and then deleted it. In its place, I will pose a multiple choice question.
Supposing you're throwing a wedding reception on the beach and there is another wedding party nearby. You have a sound system that handily outclasses your "competitor" by about 500%. For this example, assume that there's no chance for any of your "competitor's" music to spill into your soundscape. Would you:
a) Point your speakers in the opposite direction or somehow tune your setup to minimize musical overlap?
b) Drop your volume from ear searing to just really [expletive] loud as a compromise?
c) Crash their party because they look to have cool live music?
d) Use all of your 20,000 watts and declare victory with a celebratory scream, "WoooHooo!"?